Why Chinese Women are Dating YOU: Chinese Men VS. Western Men

China is known for its collectivist culture, where Chinese women can and will only seek love among Chinese men. The community as a whole considers marrying out of Chinese culture a taboo. Foreign men wonder why many gorgeous Chinese women go on Asian dating sites to seek opportunities in the international dating scene, which seems to conflict with Chinese culture.

Is there a problem with Chinese men?

Asian women, just like other women in the world, dream of romantic connections with someone who treasures a relationship even after marriage. Many Chinese men, however, are culturally inclined to be cold to their wives after they have been wed. Love languages are neglected and not considered important, compared to the future of the family.

This too realistic view of marriage from Chinese men lead Chinese women to corner this issue by choosing to stay single, hence the Mandarin term, “Sheng nu” or “Leftover women”; or better yet, they go to find love elsewhere.

Foreign men come off as romantic to Chinese women. Foreigners know how to be sweet and affectionate, give thoughtful gifts, and remember important events. This is what many Chinese women want in their relationships, which is why they fearlessly defy the odds and join international dating agencies to hopefully guaranty a match who can check the boxes to their dream relationship.

Will you be that man for these gorgeous Chinese women?