Why CHINESE WOMEN Think FOREIGN MEN Are BETTER BACHELORS

Finding real love for many Chinese girls over 25 years old, who are commonly labeled with the derogatory term 'sheng nu' or leftover women, can be challenging. Unlike the more egalitarian mindset in Western cultures, where divorce is not necessarily deemed a shameful act, China grapples with deep-rooted notions that often attribute fault to Asian women.

In China, a prevailing sentiment suggests that divorced Asian women bear character flaws or physical imperfections and are often deemed to have failed in their wifely duties. This biased scrutiny places many Chinese women at a distinct disadvantage compared to local men, subjecting them to unjust accusations and social prejudice.

The consequence of such biases is a reluctance among many women in China to pursue divorce, even when trapped in unhappy marriages. Men, whether married or not, often exhibit a prevailing preference for partners who have never experienced marriage before. Ideally, foreign bachelors and would-be passport bros seek a more traditional relationship with Chinese girls who don't have any kids. This inclination further complicates the challenges encountered by many Asian women, especially those Chinese girls labeled 'sheng nu,' in their quest to find real love with a compatible partner.

Faced with this dilemma, many single Asian girls have turned their gaze toward opportunities in Western countries. Here, societal safety nets and robust healthcare systems provide reassurance about life, whether single or after divorce. There's a perception that on the whole, foreign men approach relationships with more respect and appreciation for single Chinese women, whether leftover or divorced. This fosters an environment where typical Chinese women feel empowered to actively pursue new partnerships with foreigners for dating opportunities.

Fortunately, local matchmakers organize speed dating events for both foreign bachelors and Chinese women to meet face-to-face in cities like Shenzhen, Chongqing, or Shenyang.

Many hope that society will evolve towards greater gender equality, allowing sheng nu or leftover Chinese women to dream of a future where they are not unfairly burdened by societal biases. In the meantime, the lure of Western shores nods for a more promising and accepting landscape for Chinese girls seeking a fresh start at romance.